Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Taking Care of a Woman

Do u know that rose plants are not hard to grow? They jus need 3 things :
1) Plenty of sunshine
2) Rich loose soil and
3) Plenty of nutrients...

Women are jus like roses. They aren't really hard to understand. Jus give them plenty of love and attention.. don't treat them as sex objects or worse - only be sweet when you want some intimacy and after that, bury yourself in your work for days and forget about her till you need some intimacy again. Soon she will see the 'cycle' and feel so lousy... Frankly i don't see what's so difficult about sending a good nite sms if you're not living together ... it really means a lot to the woman..or a peck on the cheek to say good nite.. For me, if the guy can't even be bothered to do that, i'd just write him off~

Some men might think - so much hard work for what? Jus send an sms a day will do lah.. but let me share a secret.. even gardeners take care of their plants more than that and they bloom so beautifully, right? The flowers don't ask for such tender loving care..but the gardeners do it so willingly cos they know these plants are fragile .. women's feelings likewise are fragile too... they love it when you send them a morning greeting, call in the midst of your busy schedule or send an sms and then round off the day by a good nite sms. Now and then buy them some flowers if they really mean that much to you. Words are cheap.. don't tell us that you miss us so much but yet have nothing to show for it... a flower, a bracelet or costume jewellery..even a book on her hobby ...It really makes them feel so loved..and they'd be so willing to do anything for you... on the other hand, if you neglect your women, all it takes is someone who's willing to nurture them to take them away from you.. not even necessarily someone better looking. Jus someone who's willing to put in the time .. We're not asking for you to call us all day. Jus a few minutes a few times a day... and if work is so important that you can't spare the time, perhaps you should consider marrying your work :P

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