Just read some forums on women lamenting that their boyfriends don't spend enough time with them .. but when they do, they just want sex. No more shopping and movie dates, or chilling out together on beach, etc. Just a quick dinner and even quicker sex in the car/bedroom and he's either off or fallen asleep. Then the poor gal doesn't see or hear much from him for days or even weeks..before the next booty call again.. Does he love her or not? Well this smart guys know how to keep the booty in the groove by giving excuses like "Oh baby, you just don't know how much I miss you but im so busy here!" or "Honey, even though I'm so busy, I can't stop thinking of how sweet you are..hang in there for me". So the poor gal hangs in there...lonely night after lonely night.. the doubts start sinking in and she's driven to post in forums - "Does my boyfriend really love me or is he just using me?"
Well let's all agree on something - when a man really loves a woman, he'd want to spend as much time as he can with her. But.. ONCE in a week or even ONCE in two weeks is really a mockery. If he's that busy, then obviously whatever he's busy with is what he's IN LOVE with, not her. Right? So he's in love with his work, his sports, his buddies, his computer games.. sure he loves having sex with his gal but NOT as much as those. So that explains why he only has time for her ONCE in a while...and not as often as she wants to.
Anyway if it happens to me, I won't sweat over it. I'd never give my booty to anyone who isn't putting in effort to spend time with me. Cos the way i look at it - if my booty is that good, why on earth am I SOOO dumb to reserve it for a JERK who puts me on the bottom of his priorities and treats me as a booty call? There are plenty of guys out there who are sincere and will spend time with a woman they love, not treat her so bad. So gals, take my advice, cut the guy out of your list and start looking for REAL love, not booty love. You deserve love, not pining at home and missing the times you spent together. Nah, don't go and talk to him about it. Of coz he'd promise you he'd change and start spending more time with you but it won't last, I can bet my last dollar. After he realises you still need him, he'd just slip back to his lazy ways and lame excuses.. For all you know, he's romancing a new gal, that's why he's so unavailable and keeping you on the shelf for that once-in-a-week or once-in-a-fortnight booty call. What a jerk right?
Ok enuf of jerks. I did some CNY shopping today - bought 4 pairs of shoes, four tops and some belts. Found this really cool belt with roses on it!! Cooool :)
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