Thursday, August 30, 2012

Appreciation

One of the most powerful things in this world is not success or money. It is appreciation. Without it, success and money is worth nothing. I know of people who are successful but do not appreciate those who have helped them achieve it or appreciate the people in their lives who lend support. It is not just the big things that people do for it, but the litte small things that matter. Once we think we are self-sufficient and no longer need these people or their presence, then that is when we end up alone in our success and no one to share it with. Yes, we may be able to make new friends and connections but if we do not know how to appreciate people, we end up losing them too.

A woman, in particular, needs appreciation from her partner. Once neglected and put on the back burner, she feels unloved. A woman needs her man to make her feel sexy, feminine and wanted before she can respond to him. Many men once they have chased and gotten their partners, ignore this part and then wonder why their women are so cold towards them when they want intimacy. Physical intimacy starts long before the act in the bedroom - the loving word, texts, gestures and calls...

If a woman is not worth all that, then it is just a physical act and don't blame her for not giving her heart and soul into it.

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