Back in the groove again...

After 3 months of sports and more sports, I'm back in the groove again, feeling more like a lady than a sports player! Especially after a good romp with a hunk whose awesome assets (like his pectorals *salivate*) unlocked the dormant passionate woman in me. It's incredible how just a certain look, a voice and a touch can do that. I'm definitely hooked again. Riding on the wave of sensual awakening, I got three sexy outfits yesterday from my favourite store, Chaos@Far East. One of them is a halter neck blouse that really shows off my toned shoulders! Ooh-la-la! The other two are dresses that hug my body in all the right places. My new exercise schedule is now 60 min of exercise every day. So far I've been able to accomplish it this week (Sex counts as exercise too *wink*) and I feel great. Two days of swimming, two days of running, two days of strength training and one day of "other" exercises. Looking forward to reaping the benefits which are supposed to be - better tone, deeper sleep, stronger core, better health and ...stronger orgasms? Hopefully! Will I be overtraining? Well we'd see.. if I start feeling tired and falling ill more, I will have to cut back.

What people really need ...

The recent news about the teacher who molested some boys got me thinking why did the boys allow him to do all that? Was it really for the game device he offered them to play? No.. I'm sure if it was a stranger who offered them they would hv refused.. It's cos of the trust between them and the teache. He was said to be a loving and caring teacher. So the boys felt they could trust him cos he gave them a little of what everyone needs - love and acceptance.. But he took advantage of their needs and turned it to his advantage.

So ...If a woman who needs love does not get enough of it cos her partner only spends time with her in bed, then is she to blame for straying?? It becomes a chore to have sex with someone that you don't feel much for anymore...

I feel for all women who has to give sex but does not have her emotional needs for love met.. It's like groping in the dark.. U are scared to let go but you don't like being in the dark either.. Till you see a light, you just have to hold on...

No one has the right to make you feel inferior

This is a famous quote of Eleanor Roosevelt. Recently a close friend of mine lamented about having small boobs. She says her bf is always ogling at big breasted women when they are together, even to the point of staring at them openly or turning his head to look at them when they passed by. He would also describe how big the breasts of certain actresses or women he found to be hot. I know how she feels cos I don't have big boobs myself. But I told her- no one has the right to make you feel inferior. You choose whether you want to feel inferior or great about your small boobs. She said what is there to feel great about small boobs? I told her that having healthy boobs is already something to feel great about, regardless of size. Secondly they are supposed to be more sensitive and it's also easier to find clothing to fit smaller boobs than larger ones. No worries bout backache and also no worries about sagging! More importantly to me, they don't get in the way of sports. And when a guy is interested in me, I can be sure it's not cos of my big boobs! Then she says what if her bf feels big boobs turns him
on? My answer is - tell him to go find a gal who has big boobs if that is what he is always looking at! Seriously if it's me and I see my guy ogling and staring at big boobs, I won't get upset. I'd just say to him - oh since you are so interested in big boobs, I'm going to let you go so you can go find some! As for me I'd also be free to find a guy who will love my small perky boobs! Hey life is too short to waste on regrets and second choices! I'm not ashamed of my small boobs at all. They are part of my whole package and there are guys out there who LOVE small boobs and this is some comments from men that I got from this website (http://www.007b.com/small_breasts.php)

"I am a male and stumbled upon this site by accident, and I am amazed that so many women think that men like big breasts. I am a normal man and I can tell you that size A and B cups are the most attractive breasts, they don't sag, they have nice shape and are very attractive and normal............. trust me. It is not a competition, ladies. Bigger is not better. It is a myth created by women and some stupid men. Small is good. "

"I would like to say this, as a man, it is not up to me to tell women, what you look like.
It is not up to anyone to tell you that size 0 is your goal.
You are lovely.
No breasts are "perfect" - screw that, breasts are wonderful.
I'm 100% in encouragement of all of you who have breasts.
You are not sexual objects, you are women.

Assam"

"I once knew a woman with the most perfect breasts, the right size and shape, (whatever that means), but she was the UGLIEST woman that I have ever met, because she had a really ugly mental attitude! What attracts men to women is their personalities. When you become old, the one thing that will still make you beautiful and desireable will be the type of person that you are, it has absolutely NOTHING to do with your physical appearance. I am happily married to the most wonderful woman, and I've been married to her for 38 years. All her bits have headed south, gravity has managed to pull everything down, but I still think that she's the greatest thing since sliced bread, purely because she has the most amazing personality. So come on ladies, stop worrying about your physical bits, they don't count for diddly-squat! "

"Please, be glad for what you have. Many men out there, myself included, prefer women with small breasts. I am actually turned off by large breasts, I do not find them aesthetically pleasing. All those women out there that have had surgery to enlarge their breasts have, in my opinion, wasted their money! Instead of worrying about having small breasts, and buying into the stupid commercial objectification of large breasts, learn to like yourself for who you are, and find a guy that likes you for who you are.

Joe"



I told her that she should not let her bf's taste for big boobs make her feel inferior but rather take it as a blessing that she can stand up for herself and make the choice whether to leave him for someone who will love her completely for what she is. All she needs is ONE man to love her small boobs, not the whole world! Anyway boobs is not what defines a woman. It is her graciousness, her warmth, her gentleness, her body curves and her softness plus other characteristics that makes her a woman too.

Swimming better day by day..

Always seek to improve..

http://www.swimsmooth.com/catch.html

I Can Set!!

Praise the Lord! I gave Him my weakness in sports skills and in return He gave me the persistence to practice and after hours of practice at home with a volleyball I bought last week, I have learnt how to set a ball!! As I was practicing, I kept telling myself that God will and can do exceedingly, abundantly and above all that I ask or think. instead of getting frustrated at my lack of skill, I kept thanking Him for giving me a body that can move to set a ball. I kept telling myself that His grace is
More than sufficient for my needs! Now I'm addicted to setting and can't stop because it's so fun!! God is certainly so good!

It is not how long you live but how you live

I join the millions of fans who are mourning the death of Whitney Houston. A strange ache remains in my heart long after the tears I shed for her untimely departure. I ask myself what am I living for if I know I have up to a certain time on earth? Everyday we face physical, emotional, finAncual and psychological challenges and even struggles. But at the end of the day, do our failures or success matter? I honestly don't know. But I do know each of us is unique n given the gift of life. We have a choice how to live it but we don't have a choice how long. So I want to choose to love, laugh, help, give, listen, care, share and touch. These are within my power. To be happy, to be positive, to be forgiving, to be kind and to be caring. Reaching the stadium now to spend some time to keep this body fit so that I'd enjoy better sleep and less time at the clinic and hospital.

What I have learnt about love after 47 years..

That it is more than just physical attraction. Yes, usually it is because our eyes respond first before our other senses. But for me, I fell in love with the personality first, followed by the voice and then the sight and finally the touch and the scent. After that, even when age and environment changed the physical aspect, I realized that it did not affect my feelings at all. In fact, I grew even more deeply in love with his aura, his smile, his touch, his scent and his voice. How incredible that even after 7 years, I still feel so excited to see him and my skin trembles at his touch. I miss him even more after each time we meet because the memories are still so fresh. I read somewhere that if you still miss the person immediately after being with them for hours, then it is definitely more than just lust. Often the feeling fades away a bit when I start getting caught up with my work and sports, but like the song by Celine Dion goes -'when you touch me like this...it's all coming back to me' - the feeling returns strongly as ever when we meet again. How is it that I don't ever tire of his touch and companyv it amazes me because in my lifetime I have never met anyone who have loved another that deeply for that long. Relationships are like a flash in the pan and frankly I never expected mine to last long either. But now as I think of him, I feel my heart beating so fast and it's yearning so much for him!